The common sense that goes to cummer home visitting for the first time

The first time meet, bilateral hard to avoid feels cabined. After greeting, regular meeting awkward silence at an occasion. Be about at this moment derivative topic. A kind of method is use local materials. Observe wall carefully, windowsill, the table, the celebrity calligraphy and painting on the wall, the chrysanthemum on windowsill, all sorts of small ornaments on the desk, can borrow a word. Because they often reflected master interest interest, can make host is toldForum of 1000 the Long Feng that spend a net

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1, go to cummer home visitting, there can not be her hand again when arriving near her home, meet because of her neighbour make frivolous remarks about sb.

2, after taking the home, not right she is too too informal, affectionate, her family is watching your every act, lest leave bad impression to the person.

3, notShanghai night net

A falls in love with the sea to be the same as a city
Often can see watch, otherwise her family can think you are not willing to stay in her home.

4, when leaving, cannot step go out to show lax attitude, because1000 beautiful community of Shanghai

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Rear people still is surveying her home you.

5, still should notice a bit, go to cummer home doing what visit formally before today, must bathe, change clothes, should accomplish clean, neat, must not the slovenly in La, both neither respects the other side, leave bad the first impression to the person again.

The most important is the whole body sends out the clean sense that gives clean, if there is scurf on shoulder most make a person disgusting. The man is normally with outside get victory, because parental eye goes to fine point very easily to look: Clean, orderly hair, mustache, shirt collarband and cuff are clean, fingernail is repaired orderly, clean, trousers is very straight, the shoe of clean sock.

Lover gate is entered first, resemble attending an exam, want to notice dress appearance already, should be again respondent chat very necessary preparation. This can undertake from 4 respects:

One, stable mood, self-confident sincerity is earnest, natural and graceful, affirmation is welcome; Affectation is feigned, twist be affectedly bashful to hold, be cold-shouldered necessarily. Had self-confident heart, nervous mood can calm slowly.

2, understand a situation. Ask amative boy or girl friend, understand its family member, parental profession, culture, interest, experience, disposition, know to had been jumped over in detail more. The circumstance is familiar, ability has preparation first, when chatting also can have a definite object in view.

3, content drafts first. Think the other side can raise some of what question. Below this kind of circumstance, farther-in-law mother regular meeting of future asks your family, the job, the hobby, oneself can make some of preparation.

4, proper preparation gift, the first time go in home of the other side be a guest, send some of gift to give the father and mother of the other side appropriately, very be necessary, this makes clear your respect to elder not only, more the sincerity that demonstrates you, generally speaking, parents of the other side can be accepted, but should notice, sent gift shoulds not be too precious, otherwise starting point is too high, be afraid you are afterwards hard later.

The first time meet, bilateral hard to avoid feels cabined. After greeting, regular meeting awkward silence at an occasion. Be about at this moment derivative topic. A kind of method is use local materials. Observe wall carefully, windowsill, the table, the celebrity calligraphy and painting on the wall, the chrysanthemum on windowsill, all sorts of small ornaments on the desk, can borrow a word. Because they often reflected master interest interest, can make host speaks to come happy. Another kind of method is to avoid be born with ripe. Derivative topic wants escape the other side to feel new issue, the proceed with that is familiar with most from the other side, can talk about news, talk about weather a little.

When parents of the other side quizs, want to be able to narrate a specification, the manner wants respect, sound slightly a few lower, some downier. the word, one layer upon layer say to be clear about, when the talk certain complaisant. Elder is complimentary when the youth, total love says: “This child is very sensible! ” the level that average elder member of family measures young stand or fall, besides inherent appearance and oneself ability, see him whether ” sensible ” , namely whether can reason of be proficient in. When chatting with parents of the other side, you must note courteous problem, want to accomplish modest respect, understanding.

Lover gate is entered first, should abstain from 4 respects:

One, avoid is oily crafty tongue. Conversation wants guileless, say one’s innermost thoughts and feelings, if one pool rinses, clear see an end; Not feigned, not oily.

2, avoid ego is vaunting. Want to know: Do not state oneself are clever, it is clever; Not exaggerative oneself goodness, it is goodness.

3, avoid is recreant cowardly be ashamed. Want to understand: Be afraid of more tell a fault, can speak a fault more; Do not be afraid of tell a fault, instead can make the way one speaks or what he says smooth. Recreant, overcautious, bashful, it is the big fear when lover door is being ascended to chat first.

4, language of of low quality of avoid crude character. Language must civilized, clodhopping pet phrase, habitual language, must give up.

Parents of the other side asks your home banquet, explain they had preliminary good opinion to you, you must not get dizzy with success, show ” haggard ” . Because come,be a guest attends the banquet is ” have ulterior motives ” , cut end to be too fond of drink, drink as drunk as a sow, good the fate brings lovers together may because of you one drunk just rest and destroy at once. Treasure, I should go to your home haw. . .


1, go to cummer home visitting, there can not be her hand again when arriving near her home, meet because of her neighbour make frivolous remarks about sb.

2, after taking the home, not right she is too too informal, affectionate, her family is watching your every act, lest leave bad impression to the person.

3, often cannot see watch, otherwise her family can think you are not willing to stay in her home.

4, when leaving, cannot step go out to show lax appearanceForum of Shanghai noble baby

Shanghai noble baby
Voice, because of backside people still is surveying her home you.

5, still should notice a bit, go to cummer home doing what visit formally before today, must bathe, change clothes, should accomplish clean, neat, must not the slovenly in La, both neither respects the other side, leave bad the first impression to the person again.

The most important is the whole body sends out the clean sense that gives clean, if there is scurf on shoulder most make a person disgusting. The man is normally with outside get victory, because parental eye goes to fine point very easily to look: Clean, orderly hair, mustache, shirt collarband and cuff are clean, fingernail is repaired orderly, clean, longA falls in love with the sea to be the same as a city

A pulls love Shanghai to be the same as a city
Pants is very straight, the shoe of clean sock.

Lover gate is entered first, resemble attending an exam, want to notice dress appearance already, should be again respondent chat very necessary preparation. This can undertake from 4 respects:

One, stable mood, self-confident sincerity is earnest, natural and graceful, affirmation is welcome; Affectation is feigned, twist be affectedly bashful to hold, be cold-shouldered necessarily. Had self-confident heart, nervous mood can calm slowly.

2, understand a situation. Ask amative boy or girl friend, understand its family member, parental profession, culture, interest, experience, disposition, know to had been jumped over in detail more. The circumstance is familiar, ability has preparation first, when chatting also can have a definite object in view.

3, content drafts first. Think the other side can raise some of what question. Below this kind of circumstanceForum of Shanghai night net

Shanghai night net
, farther-in-law mother regular meeting of future asks your family, the job, the hobby, oneself can make some of preparation.

4, proper preparation gift, the first time go in home of the other side be a guest, send some of gift to give the father and mother of the other side appropriately, very be necessary, this makes clear your respect to elder not only, more the sincerity that demonstrates you, generally speaking, parents of the other side can be accepted, but should notice, sent gift shoulds not be too precious, otherwise starting point is too high, be afraid you are afterwards hard later.

The first time meet, bilateral hard to avoid feels cabined. After greeting, regular meeting awkward silence at an occasion. Be about at this moment derivative topic. A kind of method is use local materials. Observe wall carefully, windowsill, the table, the celebrity calligraphy and painting on the wall, the chrysanthemum on windowsill, all sorts of small ornaments on the desk, can borrow a word. Because they often reflected master interest interest, can make host speaks to come happy. Another kind of method is to avoid be born with ripe. Derivative topic wants escape the other side to feel new issue, the proceed with that is familiar with most from the other side, can talk about news, talk about weather a little.

When parents of the other side quizs, want to be able to narrate a specification, the manner wants respect, sound slightly a few lower, some downier. the word, one layer upon layer say to be clear about, when the talk certain complaisant. Elder is complimentary when the youth, total love says: “This child is very sensible! ” the level that average elder member of family measures young stand or fall, besides inherent appearance and oneself ability, see him whether ” sensible ” , namely whether can reason of be proficient in. When chatting with parents of the other side, you must note courteous problem, want to accomplish modest respect, understanding.

Lover gate is entered first, should abstain from 4 respects:

One, avoid is oily crafty tongue. Conversation wants guileless, say one’s innermost thoughts and feelings, if one pool rinses, clear see an end; Not feigned, not oily.

2, avoid ego is vaunting. Want to know: Do not state oneself are clever, it is clever; Not exaggerative oneself goodness, it is goodness.

3, avoid is recreant cowardly be ashamed. Want to understand: Be afraid of more tell a fault, can speak a fault more; Do not be afraid of tell a fault, instead can make the way one speaks or what he says smooth. Recreant, overcautious, bashful, it is the big fear when lover door is being ascended to chat first.

4, language of of low quality of avoid crude character. Language must civilized, clodhopping pet phrase, habitual language, must give up.

Parents of the other side asks your home banquet, explain they had preliminary good opinion to you, you must not get dizzy with success, show ” haggard ” . Because come,be a guest attends the banquet is ” have ulterior motives ” , cut end to be too fond of drink, drink as drunk as a sow, good the fate brings lovers together may because of you one drunk just rest and destroy at once. Treasure, I should go to your home haw. . .


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